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Are You Ready to Compete?

Thu, 16 Apr 2026 14:15:06 GMT

So you want to compete - are you ready?

A question I have been asked often throughout the years is, “How do I know if I am ready to compete?” Generally, this comes from my powerlifting clients, but I strongly feel that the answer across powerlifting, Olympic weightlifting, and functional fitness competitions remains the same. The answer comes in the form of a few questions:

Do you want to compete?
Can you complete the necessary lifts or movements to competition standards?
Are you willing to put in the work to prepare for competition and listen to your coach’s guidance?

If the answer to all of those questions is “yes,” you’re ready to compete!

There is a false belief held by many beginners that you need to be able to lift a certain amount of weight or perform at a certain level to be welcomed into competition, but that is simply not true. It can be a big, scary step to get on the platform or competition floor for the first time, but chances are the people you are most nervous to compete with are thrilled to have you there and are cheering you on. Let’s explore those three key questions a little deeper.

Do You Want to Compete?

Although I think all three questions are equally important, do you want to compete? is the initial spark that needs to be lit in an athlete’s heart before the other pieces of competition prep can even be considered.

As a coach, I can identify someone I want to see on the competition floor or someone I think would perform well—but if it’s not something they want to do, then it’s a moot point. It is my job as a coach to help athletes achieve their individual goals, not build my portfolio by forcing someone to train in a way that does not serve them.

Likewise, if an athlete tells me they want to compete, then let’s freaking go! This doesn’t mean they’re ready to hop on the floor tomorrow, but it does kick off a new, higher standard I will hold them to in order to get competition-ready—which leads nicely into the next point.

Can You Complete the Necessary Lifts or Movements to Competition Standards?

I do not care if you are hitting the platform with the heaviest squat in your weight class. I care that you can perform to the necessary standards to make whatever you put on the floor count. You can lift 30 kg or 300 kg—if it’s your best and it’s performed to standard, then I am a proud coach.

Winning is great, don’t get me wrong. I am a competitor through and through and love a spot on the podium—but sometimes other people show up stronger, faster, or more skilled. If you’re always the best in the room, where’s the fun in the challenge? The best and longest-lasting competitors are the ones who understand how to win and lose well: those who put their best out there every time and accept that sometimes their best may not be enough to win.

If you are ready to compete in theory , you also need to be ready to compete physically . If you cannot perform the necessary lifts or movements to competition standards—and the event does not have a “fun” or “foundational” division—then you’re not quite ready yet. I would not be a good coach if I put someone on the platform who cannot squat below parallel, lock out a deadlift, and so on.

There is no joy in putting someone on the floor only to watch them struggle because judges are constantly calling “no rep.” If your coach tells you that you aren’t ready yet , it’s because they care and want you performing your best on competition day. Are you willing to trust your coach to get you to that big day?

Are You Willing to Put in the Work and Listen to Your Coach’s Guidance?

Competition prep is not easy. Athletes spend countless hours training, being mindful of nutrition, and prioritizing recovery. If you’re not willing to put in the work, then I’m not going to waste either of our time coaching you through prep and competition.

During prep, you should expect at least three days (though more often four to five) of dedicated programming and a focused recovery plan. This means showing up to your workouts regardless of how you feel and planning your weeks to ensure you have the time to put in the work. For some, that may mean an earlier bedtime; for others, saying “no” to extra physical activities or social events. It might mean dialing in nutrition—upping protein and carbs or eliminating alcohol.

Yes, competition is fun and encouraging—but it is also work . You’re allowed to complain to me about being tired, sore, or unmotivated as long as you still show up and do the work .

As your coach, I’m there to support you throughout the process. Sometimes that support looks like tough love (“I know it’s hard. It’s supposed to be. Do your set.”), and sometimes it looks like adjusting the program. Communication is key, especially deeper into prep when fatigue compounds and your mental game isn’t at its sharpest.

So ask yourself:

Are you ready to make the necessary changes?
Are you willing to show up no matter how you feel?
Can you communicate with your coach and accept tough love when it’s needed?

Sign Up and Do the Damn Thing

If you’re still feeling the itch to compete after all of this, stop dragging your feet. Sign up. Tell your coach you’re in. Do the damn thing.

As a competitive athlete for much of my life, I know the drive to compete, the frustrations of prep, the anxiety of stepping onto the competition floor, the exhilaration of performing well, and the crash that comes after it’s all over. Every part of that journey matters—and there is a space for you in it if you want it.

Ready to kick off your competitive journey? Schedule your goal review or no sweat intro today! We will match you up with a coach if you don't already have one and put you on the path to success.

Start 'Em Young: Teaching Kids to Build Healthy Exercise Habits

Mon, 06 Apr 2026 17:27:56 GMT

Start ‘Em Young: Teaching Kids to Build Healthy Exercise Habits

Many of us likely dabbled in sports as kids but, if you’re like me, probably never developed a well-rounded, year-long routine. Most of us don’t truly find our “groove” in the gym until our late teens or early adulthood. Still others may not get started until later in life, when our bodies change and we know it is time to take control to be able to live our best lives.

Research continues to show that early, consistent exposure to the gym and healthy training habits at a young age set kids up for success as they age. From developing positive associations with exercise to reducing risk of injury and disease, youth strength and conditioning training, not just sport-specific training, is an integral part of developing healthy young adults.

Benefits of Youth Resistance Training

When people hear “strength and conditioning for kids,” they often associate the term with extreme fitness documentaries or old fears about stunting children’s growth. In reality, the forces placed on joints of young athletes in regular sports participation may be greater and harder to predict than an appropriately designed youth training program. Exercise scientists and clinicians agree that resistance training in children and adolescents is safe and effective when the program is appropriately designed (considering the maturity and abilities of the participants) and supervised by a qualified professional.

Injury Risk Reduction

One of the biggest benefits of youth training is actually keeping kids in the game .

A well-rounded strength and conditioning program helps build coordination, balance, and body awareness. Kids learn how to land, decelerate, and control their bodies—skills that directly translate to sport and everyday life. They will also strengthen their bones, muscles and connective tissue to lower the risk of injury as their bodies grow.

Instead of only practicing sport-specific movements, often leading to overuse, they build a more complete athletic foundation. This is especially important as kids begin to specialize in one sport earlier in life.

Stronger Bone Density & Long-Term Health

Resistance training—whether that’s bodyweight movements, light external load, or even things like jumping and sprinting—helps stimulate bone growth. This is critical for increasing bone mineral density in children and adolescents, leading to stronger bones now and later in life. This sets the foundation for decades to come, reducing the risk of conditions like osteopenia and osteoporosis.

Young athletes are not just training for the next season; they’re training for the next 50 years.

Decreased Risk of Obesity

Kids who feel confident and capable in a gym environment are far more likely to stay active as they get older. Creating a positive relationship with exercise early facilitates this relationship with exercise. Consistent exercise and balanced nutrition play a major role in maintaining a healthy body composition and reducing the risk of obesity.

Most importantly, this reframes exercise as something they get to do, not something they have to do.

Increased Insulin Sensitivity

Strength training improves how the body processes and uses energy by using and creating more muscle tissue. Better insulin sensitivity means the body is more efficient at managing blood sugar levels, which plays a key role in preventing metabolic diseases like type 2 diabetes.

While that might sound like something we only worry about in adulthood, these adaptations start early, and the habits that support them are the bedrock of building healthy teens and adults.

How to Start

The goal with youth training isn’t to create mini elite athletes overnight (or at all!). The goal is to build confidence, competence, and consistency.

Here’s where I recommend starting:

1. Find the Right Environment

Not all training is created equally. This is especially true for kids.

Look for a coach or program that understands youth development not just physically, but psychologically. Kids aren’t just smaller adults. They need coaching that meets them where they are, keeps things engaging, and emphasizes learning over performance.

A good youth program should focus on:

Movement quality over the amount of weight lifted
Skill development (squatting, hinging, pushing, pulling, running, jumping)
Encouragement and confidence-building
Age-appropriate structure and expectations

Kids should be challenged while being supported by their coach.

2. Build a Sustainable Schedule

More is not always better. Young athletes are already juggling school, organized sports, and a social life.

Keep it simple: two days per week is often enough to see benefits and build consistency. The goal is to add structure without creating stress or burnout. Consistency beats intensity every time.

3. Keep It Fun (Yes, Really)

If kids don’t enjoy the process, they won’t stick with it.

That doesn’t mean it’s all games, but it should feel engaging. Good coaching blends structure with variety, challenge with success, and effort with enjoyment.

When kids leave feeling accomplished, they come back wanting more.

4. Focus on Progress, Not Perfection

Kids don’t need perfect technique on day one. They need reps, exposure, and good coaching.

Celebrate small wins:

Moving better than last week
Trying something new
Showing up consistently

Confidence is built through evidence or clear progress. Pointing out the small wins like improved technique helps young athletes see their improvement without putting too much emphasis on competition. Those small wins add up quickly.

The Bigger Picture

Youth training isn’t about chasing early competitive performance or pushing kids too hard, too soon. It’s about giving them tools to move well, stay healthy, and build confidence in what their bodies can do.

When done right, strength and conditioning training becomes a foundation for life, not just a supplement to organized sports practice. The earlier we can introduce that foundation, the more successful young athletes are.

Your Fitness Goals Should Change as You Age

Mon, 30 Mar 2026 16:59:34 GMT

What most people don't realize about fitness - your goals should change as you age

A 42-year-old walks in to a gym (no this isn't the start of a bad joke) and starts training exactly the way they did at 24. Same workouts and intensity. Same expectations about how it will feel and the results they will receive. Then, when it stops working, they assume something is wrong with them or that "it's all downhill now."

Here's the truth: nothing is wrong with you. The problem is that your fitness goals never evolved with your lifestyle. Fitness isn’t meant to stay frozen in time. It’s more like a long road trip than a single destination. The scenery changes. The terrain shifts. And if you keep driving like you're still on the highway when the road turns into mountain switchbacks, things get messy.

As we age, our responsibilities and priorities change. Our bodies change and our fitness goals and routines should shift, too.

The Problem: Doing the Same Workouts Forever

Most people start their fitness journey in their 20s when the goals are often simple and loud:

Build muscle
Look good
Lift heavier weights
Run faster
Challenge your body

There’s nothing wrong with those goals. In fact, they’re great motivators. Bodies in their 20s are still fresh and learning how to use their full potential. They recover quickly and are surprisingly tolerant of the abuses we throw at them. You can stay up late, eat questionable food, sleep five hours, and still crush a workout the next day.

But eventually, life begins adding a little… mileage. Careers grow, families expand, and sleep becomes a precious commodity. Y et many people keep chasing the exact same training goals they had years ago and frustration begins to creep in.

Workouts that once produced dramatic progress start producing soreness, fatigue, and the occasional mysterious knee noise that sounds like stepping on bubble wrap. And no, i t’s not because you’re “getting old.” It’s because you’re using a strategy designed for a different stage of life.

The Shift: From Performance to Longevity

As you move through life, the purpose of fitness slowly evolves. It often follows a pattern like this:

In Your 20s: Performance and Appearance

Your focus is usually external. Bigger muscles, faster times, beating personal records, and maybe even visible abs. You’re exploring your physical limits and discovering what your body can do. It’s exciting, competitive, and sometimes a little reckless—in the best way.

In Your 30s: Balance and Sustainability

Life becomes busier. You might still love intense workouts, but now they have to coexist with work schedules and responsibilities, family life, limited time, and increased stress. Fitness becomes less about dominating the gym and more about fitting into real life. Efficiency and recovery matter more at this stage in life. Suddenly you regret all those naps you fought as a child.

In Your 40s and Beyond: Strength for Life

At this stage, the focus shifts toward l ongevity. Fitness becomes the tool that allows you to s tay strong and independent, p rotect your joints and bones, m aintain energy and mobility, and k eep doing the activities you love. Instead of chasing extreme performance, the goal becomes resilience. You’re likely no longer training for the next challenge, but for the next 30 years.

The Hidden Danger: Fighting Your Body

One of the biggest mistakes people make is trying to force their body to behave like it did decades earlier.

This usually leads to two frustrating outcomes:

1. Constant Injuries

Ignoring recovery, mobility, and joint health can turn small aches into long-term problems. Suddenly you’re not just sore. Y ou’re sidelined.

2. Burnout

When workouts feel like punishment instead of progress, motivation easily disappears. Fitness starts to feel like another exhausting obligation instead of something that supports your life. But when you adjust your training to match your stage of life, y our body starts responding and energy returns. Strength improves. Consistency becomes easier. Instead of fighting your body, you’re finally working with it.

What Smart Training Looks Like as You Age

Evolving your fitness goals doesn’t mean giving up intensity, big goals, or things you enjoy. Evolving means shifting your priorities toward what matters most long-term. This often includes focusing on:

Strength Training and maintaining muscle mass
Supporting joint health
Protecting bone density
Mobility and Movement Quality
Keeping joints healthy and reducing injury risk
Improving posture
Recovery - Better sleep, stress management, and strategic rest days
Consistency
Sustainable routines with workouts that fit your lifestyle
Progress measured over years, not weeks

In your early years, fitness is about building the engine. Later in life, it’s about maintaining the entire vehicle so it keeps running smoothly for as long as possible.

The Long Game

The most successful people in fitness aren’t the ones who trained the hardest for six months - They’re the ones who kept showing up for 30 years. They adjusted their workouts when life demanded it and shifted goals when priorities changed. Successful people treated fitness as a lifelong practice instead of a temporary project. A s a result, they’re still moving well, feeling strong, and enjoying life long after others have slowed down.

Co nclusion: Ask a Better Question

If you’ve been feeling frustrated with your workouts lately, the solution might not be to push harder but to stop for a second and reassess your goals. Ask yourself one simple question, “What does my body need most right now?” Maybe the answer is strength. Maybe it’s mobility or consistency after a chaotic year.

Fitness isn’t about chasing the version of yourself from 20 years ago. It’s about becoming the strongest, healthiest version of yourself today—and setting up the version of you 20 years from now for success. T he real goal of fitness isn’t just looking good for a season. It’s building a body that carries you powerfully through an entire lifetime.

How Group Classes Help Me Stay Consistent in the Gym

Mon, 16 Mar 2026 14:12:26 GMT

Consistency in the gym matters more than the perfect workout.

Consistency is the golden ticket in fitness.

Not the perfect workout program.

Not the fanciest equipment.

Not even the most motivated mindset.

Consistency.

Yet for most people, consistency is the hardest part of the entire journey. You start a new workout routine with enthusiasm. Maybe even a brand-new pair of training shoes. The first few weeks feel great.

Then life shows up.

Work deadlines pile up. Energy dips. The couch begins whispering sweet promises of comfort. And suddenly, skipping the gym becomes very easy.

This is where many fitness routines quietly fade away.

But over the years, I’ve noticed something interesting: people who take group fitness classes tend to stay consistent far longer than those who train alone.

And the reason has less to do with the workout itself—and more to do with accountability and community.

Motivation Is a Fair-Weather Friend

Motivation is wonderful… when it’s around.

But motivation is also wildly unreliable. It’s like a training partner who only shows up when the weather is perfect.

One day you feel unstoppable.

The next day you feel like a potato wearing sweatpants.

If your fitness routine depends entirely on motivation, it will eventually collapse. Life is simply too unpredictable.

Group fitness classes help solve this problem because they introduce something far more reliable than motivation:

Accountability.

When you train in a class environment:

Coaches notice when you’re absent
Classmates expect to see you
The energy of the room pulls you forward

Suddenly skipping a workout doesn’t feel like quietly slipping out the back door—it feels like missing a team practice.

That subtle shift changes everything.

Instead of asking yourself, “Do I feel motivated to work out today?”

The question becomes:

“Am I going to show up for my class?”

And showing up is half the battle.

Friendly Competition Is Rocket Fuel

Something magical happens when people train together.

You might start the workout planning to take it easy… but then you glance over and see someone next to you grinding through the same challenge.

They’re breathing hard.

Their face looks like they’re trying to solve a difficult math equation.

But they’re still moving.

And suddenly you think:

“Alright… I can push a little harder too.”

Group workouts naturally create friendly competition .

Not the toxic, chest-thumping kind. The healthy kind that quietly raises everyone’s effort level.

You run a little faster.

You hold the plank a little longer.

You pick up the slightly heavier dumbbells.

It’s the difference between jogging alone through a quiet park… and running in a race where the crowd is cheering.

The environment lifts you.

Working Out Alone Can Feel Like a Chore

Let’s be honest: the gym can sometimes feel like another item on the to-do list.

Take out the trash
Answer emails
Go to the gym

When workouts feel like chores, skipping them becomes very tempting.

But group classes change the entire emotional experience of training.

Instead of walking into a silent room full of strangers wearing headphones, you walk into a familiar environment where people greet you.

You begin recognizing faces.

The early-morning regular who always arrives first
The person who loves kettlebells a little too much
The coach who somehow remembers everyone’s name

Over time, something subtle but powerful happens.

The gym stops feeling like a task.

It starts feeling like a place you belong .

And humans are remarkably consistent about showing up to places where they feel connected.

The Power of Shared Struggle

One of the fastest ways to build camaraderie is through shared effort.

There’s something oddly bonding about finishing a brutal workout with a group of people who are just as sweaty and out of breath as you are.

You exchange a few exhausted laughs.

Someone collapses on the floor dramatically.

Someone else makes a joke about needing pizza immediately.

It’s a strange little ritual of shared struggle.

But those moments matter.

Because when people feel supported, encouraged, and connected, they’re far more likely to come back the next day.

Exercise stops being something you have to do .

It becomes something you get to experience with others .

Community Is the Secret Ingredient

Fitness culture often glorifies the image of the lone warrior grinding through workouts in isolation.

But humans are social creatures.

We thrive in tribes.

When you consistently attend group classes, small interactions begin stacking up over time:

A quick conversation before class
A high five after finishing a tough workout
Encouragement during the last few reps

These small moments compound.

Eventually the people around you stop feeling like strangers.

They become training partners.

Friends.

Your fitness community.

And once that community exists, something remarkable happens:

Skipping the gym feels like skipping time with friends.

Why This Matters More Than the Perfect Workout

People spend endless hours searching for the perfect workout program.

The ideal set and rep scheme.

The ultimate fat-burning routine.

The most optimal training split.

But the truth is simple:

The best workout program is the one you actually stick to.

And consistency is easier when:

Someone is expecting you to show up
The environment is energetic
The people around you support your effort

That’s exactly what group fitness classes provide.

Not just workouts.

A system that makes consistency easier.

A Simple Tip to Build Consistency

If staying consistent has been your biggest struggle, try this simple strategy:

Commit to attending two group fitness classes per week for the next month.

Treat those classes like appointments you cannot cancel.

Show up even on the days you don’t feel motivated.

Because once you walk through the door, the rest tends to take care of itself.

The coach guides the workout.

The class energy lifts you.

The community keeps you engaged.

And before you realize it, the hardest part—showing up—starts to feel effortless.

Consistency in fitness isn’t about heroic bursts of motivation.

It’s about creating an environment that makes showing up easier.

For many people, group fitness classes provide exactly that.

A place to train.

A place to push yourself.

And perhaps most importantly—

A place where you’re not doing it alone. ��

How Lifting Weights Changes How You See Yourself (And Not Just Your Body)

Mon, 02 Mar 2026 17:50:05 GMT

Confidence comes from skill, consistency, and evidence - not hype and aesthetics

Someone recently asked why I lift heavy weights, and it took me a minute to really think about it. There are the health benefits, such as increased muscle mass to help manage a hereditary predisposition toward diabetes and high blood pressure, and stronger bones as I creep ever closer to age 40 and perimenopause. When I really think about it, though, that’s not what keeps me coming back under the bar every week. I told them, “Honestly, there is something really empowering about looking at a person and knowing I can pick them up.”

Being who I am as a person, I was a bit tongue-in-cheek with my response, but there is a basis of truth to it. As a woman who grew up in the ’90s and early 2000s, there was always this tension between being a strong, independent person and allowing men to assist with carrying things or opening doors for me. Don’t get me wrong—there is nothing wrong with asking for help when needed. But what if I didn’t need help carrying that bag of dog food to my car? What if I could go to Ikea and load that flat-packed desk onto my cart and into my car on my own? That opens up a whole lifetime of opportunities without being dependent on another person to do the things I want to do.

Something amazing happened when I started training for strength and stopped training for aesthetics: I stopped chasing confidence and started building it. Strength training changed the way I relate to my body as the amazing machine that it is.

Confidence doesn’t come from motivation—it comes from evidence.

Have you ever thought to yourself:

“Once I feel more confident, I will go to the gym.”

“Once I lose weight, I will like my body.”

“Once I know how to exercise, I will trust myself.”

Here’s the secret: confidence doesn’t come first. Learning how to train and building a cache of objective evidence does. In training, evidence can look like:

Finishing a workout you once thought was impossible

Moving without pain for the first time in years

Deadlifting more weight than you ever have before

Showing up even when motivation is low

Every single rep is a data point: My body can do hard things. Belief in myself and my body comes from repeated proof of what I am capable of. This is why strength training is such a powerful tool for building confidence. It provides repeated, measurable, and objective feedback about what I can do. And capability builds confidence faster than aesthetics ever will.

Strength training builds trust in your body—not just muscle.

As a certified strength and conditioning specialist and personal trainer, these are things I hear regularly from people when we begin working together:

“My body can’t do what it used to.”

“I’m afraid I am going to hurt myself.”

“I’ve failed at this before.”

“I can never do that.”

Strength training helps flip the narrative. Instead of seeing my body as something to fix, punish, or shrink, I treat it as a partner in living life to the fullest. Strength training teaches body literacy - understanding what I am feeling, what I am capable of, and what I need.

How to brace my core (what even is the core?)
How to squat, hinge, push, and pull
How to recover
How to respect fatigue
How to progress wisely

That is functional confidence: I know what my body can handle. This carries over into daily life:

Carrying groceries feels easier
Stairs don’t feel threatening
I move with certainty
I know I can move through life without second-guessing myself

This is what long-term physical health actually looks like: trust in my own physical movement.

Training-based confidence is durable.

Aesthetic-based confidence depends on external factors outside of my control:

Lighting
How my clothes fit that day
Comparison to those around me
Outside validation

Meanwhile, training-based confidence depends on skill, consistency, work capacity, and progress over time. One bad week or one missed workout cannot erase that progress because it’s built on experience, not image. This is especially important for long-term health. If your confidence is tied to how you look, aging feels like failure. If your confidence is tied to what you are capable of, aging becomes something you can train for.

This means a shift in how you approach the gym and your training.

If your goal is to build your fitness regimen and confidence through movement, your program should prioritize progressive overload, skill development, sustainable intensity, and coaching with constructive feedback.

Progressive overload means systematically increasing the intensity of your workouts. This gives clear, measurable progress points. Heavier lifts, greater volume, and increased work capacity are all examples of progressive strength development.

Skill development is just that - building comfort with movements such as squatting, hinging, pressing, pulling, and carrying. Skills create independence and agency.

Sustainable intensity means you do not need to be crushed in every training session. You need training that is repeatable for weeks, months, and years. Push your limits in a way that empowers you but allows you to come back the next time. Consistency beats “winning the workout” every time.

Coaching and feedback are paramount as you start your strength training journey. Confidence grows faster when someone helps you understand how to move well and highlights your progress along the way: what has improved, what to work on, what matters, and what is just noise. A coach who partners with you and provides constructive feedback keeps your training and mindset on track.

Strength training builds confidence through skill, consistency, and evidence.

If you chase strength and skill development, consistency in your training, and long-term health, confidence shows up—perhaps quietly, but reliably, without permission from a mirror or dependence on how you feel day to day.

If you are starting your fitness journey (or maybe thinking about restarting) ask yourself, “What can I teach my body to do?” As you seek to answer that question, you may just discover what real confidence in your body feels like.

Reach out to set up your No Sweat Intro session with me (or find a local trainer you resonate with). All of us started somewhere, taking that first step into the gym and trusting someone to teach us how to move a barbell or use a piece of equipment. We thrive on teaching you to become the strongest, most confident version of yourself.